How to build relationships with neighbors:
1. Spend time in your front yard. We've done birthday parties, bbq's, even family dinners on our front yard (I know, kind of odd but it works!) with the idea to get to know people, wave as people walk their dogs or drive by, or introduce ourselves. Again, it works.
Try it and let us know what you learn...
btw, if you feel comfortable doing it, keeping your garage door open also helps.
2. Invite neighbors into your house.
I know, not an easy one and you have to know people, but it means a lot. It's ironic but even though I know many of my neighbors, I've only been inside two other neighbor's homes. It's really easy to forget how most of us have never been in each other's homes, we only see each other from a distance.
So any invites? I'll take it! : )
Here are some ways to know you're getting to know your neighbors:
* You have a group of friends who know they can come over, or call your cell phone without feeling like they’re bugging you.
* You look at your weekly calendar and can find at least one or two times that you’ll be seeing several of them.
* The question, “How’s it going?” is quickly followed by, “how can I help?”
* You watch each other’s kids and are on call for emergencies.
* You can’t find all your tools cuz they’ve been loaned out to people in your community.
*Extroverts get to be extroverts and introverts can remain introverts.
*Your children feel like they are a part of the community instead of getting thrown into the basement to watch videos until the big people are done talking.
*When needs come up within the sphere of your friends, your people quickly pool resources or commit time to help.
*When your house or the house of your community runs the social calendar for the neighborhood.